What kind of bug are you going to be?
While I promise not to make this blog a whiny mid-life crisis blog, I do occasionally think about my life and career. I am 40 after all. Maybe I think about my life more than occasionally.
Am I trapped doing the same job at the same company? Is there a corner office waiting for me somewhere? Am I too good at what I do to move up? Can I stomach being a heartless prick in order to move up? You might have all these or similar thoughts in your head, too.
I've started to realize that I need to consider my career in terms of being 'manager' instead of being 'marketer'. One of the things that has been on my mind is how my behavior should/would change in order to be a better manager, and, of course, be ready to move up.
I found this article in June's Men's Health by Gil Schwartz enlightening, The Metamorphosis enlightening. Here's a quick synopsis, in which he uses the metaphor of a bug changing:
"To achieve true career success, be prepared to make these 4 major transformations along the way"
- Associate to Manager
Transforming moment: The first move up comes when you're willing to assert your personality over those more powerful than you. The capacity to be unpleasant about your own cause ruins you as a slave -- and marks you as a manager. - Manager to Senior Manager
Transforming moment: You decide that young Bob can handle three or four of the 12 things on your plate. When he's almost done, you grab them back so you take can credit for them. Crack! You just earned your new skin. - Senior Manager to Executive
Transforming moment: You realize you care more about 2017 than you do about 2007. You look in the mirror and see your father, or what he looked like when he dressed up for a big occasion. - Executive to Regular Guy
Anyway, I found this article (and previous columns) great, gritty food-for-thought. It's hard to set true goals for your future without realistically understanding what it takes to get there, and what it really is like once you do.




